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1  Self Improvement / Lucid Dreaming & More! / Re: Any idea what these dreams mean? on: November 21, 2008, 03:42:11 AM
I agree about it being about control. I have a recurring dream about inheriting a mansion from my grandfather. When I get there I find that it is haunted, but I am not overly fearful of the ghosts. The strangest part is that it is always the same house, it looks the same and there is always an enourmous walk in refridgerator freezer down stairs. Usually it contains massive quantities of rotten, old , yucky food. I am a 37 year old married (unhappily right now) female. Undecided
2  Self Improvement / Lucid Dreaming & More! / Re: Recurring dream about teeth on: November 21, 2008, 03:32:25 AM
I have the losing teeth drean a lot. I thought maybe it was because I was a dental assistant previously for 2 years. Someone told me that it was an a dream meaning that I was feeling vulnerable thus enforcing the other post about it being an anxiety dream. The person told me that as children lose teeht and are vulnerable that when we dream about our teeth faling out it is our subconscious acting out feelings of vulnerability. Could be, I have been through a lot!
3  General / Post your Problem! / Re: I love my husband but I don't really like him anymore on: November 21, 2008, 03:13:42 AM
I totally know what you mean. I have been married for 19 years. I feel guilty in saying that I don't "like" my husband anymore, but I kinda don't. I like it when he is not home. He annoys me!!! We don't enjoy the same things. I married when I was 18. We recently filed for bankruptcy and I guess in all honesty I blame him because he handled our business and I feel like he didn't know what he was doing. I resent his hobbies and interests, because I think they are stupid. I have not really enjoyed s*x for a long time, and I think he knows it without it being said- it's rare that he initiates it and I am glad. I don't have any advice for you, but it is good to have someone to express  my feelings to and see that you are struggling with some of the same. Good to know I am not alone. I agree that my husband is a lousy communicator also. He used to be such a good dad when my kids were young, he played with them and helped so much with duties and such. Now that they are teenagers he is often an asshole to them. He yells at them, and like yours expects so much from me and the kids in terms of being perfect. It's like a bad attitude or day is a personal insult to him. He is too rough on the kids when they make a mistake or simply act like typical teenagers. He is making a new Christian CD of his own music in spite of the knowlegde that I do not approve. He made one before and no one bought any. He really isn't that good, but he thinks he is. He mentioned that he is going to make 1,000 copies. I think he's a moron! I am a Christian too, but I think he is dumb and waisting his time. ATLEAST he is not spending OUR family money THIS time on his music because some lady at church is "supporting the project." His other hobby is flying. I don't enjoy it. It makes me feel sick to go up in a little plane with him. He has spent a lot of money on this "hobby" over the years. I am going to college and feel liberated and it seems to make my feelings toward him worse as it is teaching me more about the world and more about myself. Do you have anything specific that you feel has contributed to you or him changing?
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